When you are fully charged, you get more done, you have better interactions, your mind is sharp.
Create positivity
Interactions are about creating far more positive moments than negative moments.
Happiness and meaningfulness
Happiness and meaningfulness are two distinct human conditions. People leading meaningful lives get joy from giving to others.
Finding meaning
Meaning is doing something that benefits another person
Meaning does not happen to you, you create it.
Collective power
The concept of bringing people together is based on the premise that collectively human beings can do more than individually.
Money versus satisfaction
Working primarily for money is little more than a modern day form of bribery!
People who wrap their identity in their salaries rarely find satisfaction in their work.
Motivation through collective good
Whenever possible, get your motivation from doing things that contribute to a collective good.
Interests, needs and strengths
There are three things to think about: interests is what you want to do, needs is about others and the world and strengths are what you are good at.
How you lose opportunities to create meaning
If every day you let something keep you from following your dream, then you are losing an opportunity to create meaning
Are you an ‘initiator’ or a ‘reactor’?
In this age of infinite information and endless distraction, it is easy to spend a day reacting to what is thrown at you. A key differentiator is what you initiate every day.
Put purpose before busyness
On average, people spend half their time thinking about things other than what they are doing.
A recipe for unhappiness
The human mind is a wandering mind and a wandering mind is an unhappy mind
The power of positive interactions
All relationships are formed through a series of interactions.
We need three to five positive interactions to overcome one negative one.
Staying active energizes
Being active throughout the day is the key to staying energized. Walk around every hour, talk and get back to your routine.
Work and life
Does the work you do improve your life?
Is there a field trip that you and your team can take to see the effects of your work directly?
Money as a motivator?
When does money motivate you in a good way? When does it steer you in the wrong direction?
Sincere feedback
Your feedback must always be sincere.
Who can you recognize with great sincerity and detail next?
Shivakumar is Operating Partner at Advent International. Before this, he was President (Corporate Strategy and Business Development) at Aditya Birla Group. Earlier assignments include: Chairman & CEO at Pepsico India and prior to that, Managing Director at Nokia India. Before joining Nokia, he worked with consumer electronics maker Philips and top consumer goods firm Hindustan Unilever. He is an engineer from IIT Chennai and an MBA from IIM Calcutta.
Shivakumar has written three books: Reflections - a collection of Shivs articles; The Right Choice - Resolving Ten Career Dilemmas; and The Art of Management. The latter two are business bestsellers.